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  • Writer's pictureJerry Justice

Mastering the Art of Non-Verbal Communication: Avoid These Common Mistakes

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Although the exact percentages quoted of how much of communication is non-verbal has varied widely, it seems undisputed that it is significant and impactful. In fact, there is sometimes blatant contradiction between the words one might be saying and their body language while saying it! Public speakers take extensive courses to ensure consistency between the two.

Body language and non-verbal communication are like the secret sauce of effective communication. We often focus on what we say, but how we say it can be just as important. Unfortunately, many of us make common mistakes when it comes to non-verbal cues that can lead to misunderstandings, miscommunications or missed opportunities.

But don’t worry! In this blog, we're going to break down some of these blunders and offer tips on how to avoid or overcome them.

1. Fidgeting and Nervous Habits:

We've all been there, tapping our feet, playing with our hair or constantly adjusting our glasses when we're feeling anxious. These nervous habits can make you appear less confident and distract others from your message.

Tip: Practice mindfulness to identify your nervous tics. Once you're aware of them, work on controlling them. Take deep breaths, try to keep your hands still and maintain good posture. Over time, these habits can be conquered.

2. Avoiding Eye Contact:

Avoiding eye contact can send the wrong signal. It might make you seem disinterested, dishonest or even shy.

Tip: Make an effort to maintain steady, natural eye contact. If it feels intimidating, focus on the other person's nose or forehead instead. The more you practice, the more comfortable it becomes.

3. Inconsistent Facial Expressions:

Your face is like a canvas of emotions. When your facial expressions don't match what you're saying, it can confuse people.

Tip: Pay attention to your own expressions and the expressions of those to whom you're talking. Make sure they align with the message you want to convey. If necessary, practice in front of a mirror to fine-tune your expressions.

4. Crossing Your Arms:

Crossing your arms can make you seem defensive or closed off.

Tip: Keep your arms relaxed and open. Use gestures that complement your speech and show that you're engaged in the conversation.

5. Overusing Gestures:

On the flip side, excessive gesturing can be distracting and take away from your message.

Tip: Use gestures to emphasize key points, but keep them in check. Be mindful of your hand movements, ensuring they add to the conversation rather than detract from it.

6. Ignoring Personal Space:

Invading someone's personal space can make them feel uncomfortable. Not respecting boundaries can hinder effective communication.

Tip: Be aware of personal space and adjust your distance based on cultural norms and the comfort level of the person with whom you're interacting. Give them room to breathe.

7. Interrupting or Not Listening:

Non-verbal communication isn't just about what you do; it's also about how you react to others. Interrupting or not actively listening can send negative signals.

Tip: Show that you're engaged and listening by nodding, maintaining eye contact and using appropriate facial expressions. Wait for your turn to speak rather than interrupting.

8. Inappropriate Posture:

Slouching or standing too rigidly can send the wrong message about your confidence and interest in the conversation.

Tip: Maintain good posture. Sit or stand up straight and keep your body relaxed. This not only conveys confidence but also helps you feel more confident.

In conclusion, mastering non-verbal communication is about being aware of your own body language and understanding the signals you're sending. By recognizing and addressing these common mistakes, you can enhance your ability to connect with others, improve your relationships and effectively convey your thoughts and feelings. So, go out there and start practicing - your non-verbal communication skills will thank you!

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